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Due dates and scans suggest the baby may realistically be mine

So very long story short. I had unprotected sex (yes I know silly, so you don't need to comment on that) with a gorgeous friend of mine who has a BF already. About a month later she tells me that she is about 10 weeks pregnant so I"m thinking oh that's sad, that's the end of any chances of us happening. (which had been discussed)
She goes and has her scan during the second week of January and is told she is earlier than they thought from the bloods and that she is 8 weeks. They gave her a due date of August 30. We had sex on December 4. I've tried just about every online calculator and every one comes back to almost perfectly (give or take a few days) when were had sex as to when she conceived.
When i raise this possibility with her she shuts it down pretty quickly saying she has done the maths and its not mine?!. Yes i'm not the BF, but the numbers don't add up and I feel i should know for sure.
Maybe she is avoiding a horrible conversation with her BF..

2 Answers • 7 years ago


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If she slept with her BF any day around when you two slept together then it's impossible to tell whose it is without a DNA blood test. Not even she could "do the math" and know. Sounds like she's trying to convince herself too. Sperm survive for up to 4 or 5 days so that's a decent chance for it to be either of yours. I'd ask for a paternity test!

7 years ago


My last period was December 3rd ,I am pregnant and due sept.9th which makes me ( according to ultra sound) exactly 7 weeks today , so if she is due august 30 she definitely was pregnant before December 5th

7 years ago


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