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depression after missed miscarriage help.

On march 24 i got a faintly positive pregnancy test, march 29 the sickness started as well as bleeding and a few clots, i thought i has passed everything, thinking it was a chemical pregnancy, as the bleed lasted 5 days, i hadn't been with my partner since feb 14 (work schedules changed)
i started getting dizzy spells and fainting but blamed work stress
i was due to go for a hycosy scan may 25 and was advised to do a pregnancy test, it was positive very faint but visible, i repeated with a different brand and it was negative so went ahead, to my appointment, the did a regular ultrasound and discovered 2, 7 week fetus's no heartbeats and uterine lining was too thick, they asked questions on last bleed and said it was a missed miscarriage and had been carrying my babies for 8 weeks, i was booked in for an emergency dc on may 30 but passed them that day.
Im seeing a counselor but it doesnt feel like its helping any, do i go back to the gp?

4 Answers • 7 years ago


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I am so sorry for your losses. Healing takes time, sometimes more then you would think. Your body needs to heal and so does your heart and your emotions. After several losses pretty close in time to one another it took me about a year to finally come to terms with everything and truly be okay. During that year things did get better but not right away. Don't let anyone tell you how soon you need to not feel sad anymore or when things will magically feel okay. You heal on your own time but also try to keep doing things you enjoy and being around friends and family. I wish you the best.

7 years ago


Hi, I am totally agree with theprincess_21.

Is definately take times to heal. Do not judge by the other.
Last year September I was lost my 20 weeks pregnancy angel girl.
Everything is just happen so suddenly.

now almost a year, I am still missing her so much. I still will cry on and off. But that definately is ok.
I am still working, and do my routine work.
I understand all the theories which outsider wish me to understand.

Many of them might not understand exactly our feeling, and will not understand why we can be sad that long. but i would definately tell you. This is ok.

As long as we do not move negative and clearly know what we are doing. That will be ok.
You could message me when you need a talk as well.

7 years ago


I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. It was brutal, because I had waited till just a few days before to tell my children and family that I was having a baby.

No one talks about it. Its a real loss, and it feels real to me everyday. I am hopeful that I may conceive again soon, but it doesn't make you stop feeling loss.

keep moving through it. Time and Love heals.

7 years ago


Thank you everyone, i'm slowly accepting things, my 5 year old niece helped me, she put her hand on my tummy and said 'it will be okay, they are sleeping now'
She had no idea about them but oddly but i felt relived i dont know how to explain how i felt at that moment but im starting to feel okay again.
Thank you all for advice xxxx

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