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Hi guys ive just lost my little man stillbirth 20.05.16 18.12 and i am so sad .
I am so mad at my partner because he wasnt there i have been horrible and continue to be horrible to him. i told him to end the relationship which has come as a shock but hes just backed off and given me space. I love him and dont want to lose him, but i think its Because kristien our angel was the spitting image of him hands feet face everything. i dont know what to do guys. He had just been posted away and was due back in july ready for the birth and i was ok with it and flights back were so expensive so i had to do it alone and i blame him. how do i get over this and make him realise.... i have had to deal with funeral and all sorts alone. HELP
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First of all I am sorry you lost your son. I don't care about schedules or flight costs or whatever...if I was going through a still birth I would expect my husband to be there no matter what. No one should have to do that alone. Personally I don't think I could ever forgive that no matter how much counseling we got.
7 years ago
I would just like to say I'm so sorry for everything you have been though, I have been through a similar thing, I just wanted to say to you don't push your husband away, he will be hurting as well, I understand you feel you may have needed him, but in his eyes he will have been doing what you agreed. He may not be local but you need each other at this dreadful time. The reason I know this is because I have been there 10 months ago.
Your hormones will be all over the place and you are grieving, don't make any rash decisions, you have said you love him.
If you need to chat to me please send me a message, I understand the pain you are facing, please take no notice of people who haven't got anything constructive to say, especially when they have no idea what you are going though. Take care. Xxxx
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