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Is it me or him?(bear w me it's a long one)

Me and my now ex James we where off n on 6 years at the start we where just FWB but since we mad eye contact I felt like I meet my soul mate he said he felt the same and after we started dating we wanted kids and to get married but he got locked up in Pueblo wile I was finishing trade then went back to sioux falls then we where in a long distended relationship for 3 years the distence was ruff on us n I had broke up w him wile he was in jail then wanted him back again and that's just when it started going down hill when he got out of jail I drove to him for 2 days came back he broke paroles to see me n then I was raped and ended up pregnet w my first child Maria he was there for her birth so he got atached to her pritty quick he's always treated her like his own but then down the road we broke up and out of spit I hooked up with a guy got pregnet again with my son santana then down the road me and James almost had a baby I misscarried we try still can't get pregnet idk if it's me orHim

2 Answers • 7 years ago


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I'm sorry for everything you've been through. And I'm sorry for your loss. But I'd say it is neither him nor you. 1 MC doesn't point to a problem. Sometimes its just the wrong sperm meeting the wrong egg on the wrong day, as the saying goes. From your story I'd say you're far more fertile than practically any other woman on here so.... I don't see any reason to assume you have any fertility issues.

This may not go over well but I thought I'd throw this out there: perhaps this isn't the best time to be trying to have another baby. Your relationship with James seems incredibly unstable and maybe trying to add a baby to that mix isn't the best idea. You have to do what is right for you and your family, and you know what that is better than I do. I'm just an internet stranger. But maybe it's something to think about, at least.


TTC #1: January 2015- October 2015 BFP #1: October 16, 2015. MC: November 6, 2015 BFP #2: March 15, 2016. MC: March 21, 2016 TTC Rainbow: November 2015- Present

7 years ago


The problem is definitely him. You sound incredibly fertile. :) Maybe get him to have a semen analysis done or something?

7 years ago


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