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Family member angry at me for being pregnant. Support.

My SIL has 3 kids, a 5 yr old, 3 yr old and 3 month old. I've struggled with TTC and finally got pregnant after trying since 12/14! WOOHOO!! The day she found out i was pregnant she was happy and literally the next day it was a 180... Shes been criticizing me and trying to make me feel like a bad parent. I keep making excuses not to hang out with her because she is so negative it stresses me out and makes me want to yell at her and tell her the things she has done wrong! Im keeping a positive very understanding front. I go home and stress about her.
I just dont understand why she is jealous and judgemental.I'm not doing anything wrong, except after i found out i was pregnant my other SIL and hubs bff asked me to smoke with them and i too 1 hit ONCE and told them im sorry i dont desire to smoke in pregnancy and its not something i can do and they NEVER pressured me again. So she even told ppl I smoke in pregnancy. She got botox and lips done. No1 said nething to her nd that was BAD

2 Answers • 7 years ago


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Chuck up the deuces .. Ain't nobody got time for the foolishness. You need to remain cool, calm and collected for the next 9 months and beyond .. Your baby is MORE important then someone's attitude!

7 years ago


Your mannerisms or I guess word usage cracks me up!! Decent advise :) Thanks for the response. I'm actually almost two more weeks along and realized it's totally ok for people to have their own opinions or judgments on me! I'm choosing happiness and so far it's worked out great for us! Hubby, myself and baby ;) plus it's kinda fun to make fun at these things people say now. My hubby does it to cheer me up and it's worked out fabulous!

Thanks again for the response! Take care!

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