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PLEASE HELP! I need all advice how/when to tell BFF I'm pregnant after she miscarried...
I just found out I'm pregnant (3w5d) and I am so excited (I had a MMC in 08/15 @ 10 wks). My BFF, unfortunately, just had a MMC in 01/16 @ 10wks : ( She knows I've been trying to get pregnant, and told me she wants me to tell her if I succeed, but I know I was DEVASTATED when she told me 3 months after I had MC'd. I will see her when I travel back to my hometown in 2 months (I'll be 11 weeks pregnant, so won't yet be showing). I don't know if I should tell her before I go to PA in the end of March, while I'm in PA, or wait until she's had 6 months or so to recover.
Any input/advise on this is VERY much appreciated! Thank you = )
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Tell her now (2 votes)
Tell her before going home (0 votes)
Wait until we're together to tell her (8 votes)
Wait until I'm 5-6 months along to tell her (0 votes)
1 Answer • 8 years ago
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I am at your bff's position in this situation...i had a mc n suddenly all my frnds conceived...n they have their first now whereas am still trying...
Although am happy for them n no jealousy watsoever but its just so hard to see so many new borns ..i dont mean ill for them i love them all but smwhr i cry everytime i see them...
It will be tough for ur bff esp if she is as emotionally torn as me...am just so weak...help her be her support.s..dont discuss her loss unnecessary...only if she wants to discuss..
Love to u
8 years ago
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