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All consuming ttc and trying to relax...
So, after our 11th month of a bfn I am absolutely devastated. I usually get 4-5days of pre spotting end fore period and my period never arrived, but it's en route as the spotting as started. I'm astounded I'm actually late on my period, as I have never had a late period since they started at 17!!!!! Anyway, my OH is tired with it all naturally, espec my bleating on, so I'm trying my best to relax and 'forget' we are trying ttc in the hope this will help but I'm bloody stumped how to do this when the thought of ttc consumes my thoughts constantly, I'm so scared i can't conceive again (1st baby conceived first try followed by 2 mc) . Has anyone got any advise on how you conceive when you are so desperate for another one, I'm 37 and feel like my time is ticking on. I know you ladies are in the same boat as me. God I feel for us all, I love my baby and desperately want baby another to complete my lovely family. Thanks for any advise, I know we're all in this together.xxxx
2 Answers • 8 years ago
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Ughh do I totally get you!!! I'm also 37 -- I do have previous children but not w/ my now husband. We've been trying over a year..... Month after month of BFN. I'm due for AF in 3 days & my HPT are once again negative.... I'm sure AF will be here on time. I too wish I could just chill & not worry bout it but its all I think of. Hope things get better for you!!!
8 years ago
You have to relax.; you really do. Tell yourself you are trying and just live married life normally. Our minds are very powerful and consume our entire bodies always, but you really have to calm down. I'll be Christmas soo,n be in the happy spirit and start decorating or something. Take your mind off of ttc'ing is my point.
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