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Hopefully, the two options you are giving aren't the only ones you are considering. I recommend counseling with your church or through Christian counseling services for the best possible plan. Obviously, you need support to make a sound decision. Best wishes.

I am sure that when you're parents see their little grandchild they will soon change their minds about accepting the little person into their life. Given you have the offer to move in with you bf anyway I think maybe you should tell them you are pregnant - who knows, they may surprise you when the reality hits them.

Cutting ties with family, specially at this point, may be a hard situation to bounce back from but you know the situation best. It is up to you but do get some advice from counselling as Mozard suggested before making your decision.

Good luck.

If I situation is toxic for you, no matter family or not it's okay to walk away. I had a very toxic relationship with my mother and no one told me it was okay to walk away, until two years ago when a counselor said that it was okay. some family issues can totally be worked through and if you have a good relationship with your family and there is a lot of love and respect then I say try and work things out. But if you don't feel loved and respected for who you are, and when you are with them they make you feel like you cannot be yourself then I would consider making a new life for yourself. It doesn't make you a bad person to decide to put yourself and your babies needs first. I hope it all works out no matter what you decide. Good luck.