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I don't know what I am supposed to do. 20 and scared.

I got back with a guy I was with. It got hot and heavy.. I didn't think anything about it. Then he texted me telling me "3 of you women are texting me at once and all of you need to stop" after only sending 2 messages in a row. So I immediately stopped talking to him. Now Im almost a week late which never happens. I went to see him and told him that I was late and he tells me "well if you are you better give me a paternity test." Im just disgusted by it, and tried texting him and he told me to only text him if it was something important.. Only he knows im late because Im afraid of being judged. Should I even tell him? Does he deserve to even know about this possible sweet blessing? please help):

2 Answers • 8 years ago


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What a dickhead. Do you know you're pregnant for sure, have you taken a test? The guys I know that had kids young had to grow up quick but now they wouldn't change it for the world. I think you should let him know if you're pregnant, if he has any common sense what so ever he'll get his act in gear. You probably will have to get that paternity test to prove it to him but you can cross that bridge when you come to it. All the best.

8 years ago


Sounds like a young imature guy. Most guys go through that stage and I'm sure when he grows up a bit he'll look back and realize how much of an idiot he was at the time. All you can do is your best, you can't control him. I agree that you should let him know everything you find out and let him know with confidence! You're right that if you are pregnant it is a blessing! Recognize and love it for that and if he can't get on board then you know you did your part. Most likely he will come around at some point...how long it takes for that to happen is up to him. But I definietly think allowing him the opportunity to be there and involved will take any guilt off of you that you might have over time if you kept it a secret. Good luck to you and go take that pregnancy test!!

8 years ago


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