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First of all you are so young- and I'm sorry for this trauma in your life! I just want to put your mind at ease and let you know that there is nothing you could have done to prevent your miscarriages. No amount of prenatals could have changed your outcomes. Lots of crack moms and homeless women and alcoholics have babies every single day. I have had 5 miscarriages all different kinds all different stages of pregnancy. There is no rhyme or reason to why some babies grow and some don't. Genetically things go wrong- it isn't environmental. If you had never carried a baby to term then perhaps they would look into a clotting disorder or progesterone problem. But your body has done this successfully before- so keep some hope! I always say I'm thankful that I miscarry instead of never having the chance to be pregnant at all. So I hold on to that if nothing else. There's always another chance it will work out. Hugs to you-

I think do the simple things; try to live a healthy lifestyle: no drinking or smoking and be on prenatal at least three months before you try for another. Just start out with those simple things and see what happens. Good Luck!

Thankyou ladies so much for your answers.I've tried to take it easy.I'm thankful I have gotten pregnant but I can't help but think something is wrong.My last period I spent vommiting nausea heavy clots my abdomen has been fairly sor

My abdomen is sore and swollen for the padt year but these clots that come with my period has been scaring me.I'm going to another doc for a second opinion.I'm getting blood work done from my regular obgyn so far everything is normal.I try to take it easy sometimes i break down and cant help but think god doesnt want me and my fiance to have our own bring home baby