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I feel the same exact way. My sister in law is on #3, already has one healthy beautiful boy and girl... And is talking about #4. My husband doesn't understand so I wanted to say I fully get what you mean. It's not fair and it's frustrating. Trying to stay positive is hard but it's all I can do. Sending my positive vibes and an understanding shoulder your way.

I fully understand how you feel. It is something most of us who have been TTc for a while are struggling with. I wrote a JE on the subject of baby envy "Deadly Poison", also several JEs on various subjects like patience, contentment, how to cope, etc that might also be helpful to you. Read if you like. Best wishes.

So I work as a cop and it is aggravating when I see certain people who I arrest and are on drugs, alcohol, or just smoking and making dumb life decisions that are like 8 months pregnant and I can't get pregnant. And I have to smile and be nice and helpful to them!! So I hear you

Fully agree. I have to choke back a lot of resentment for most people when I hear they're pregnant. I also hate the equally annoying "Why haven't you had kids yet? Are you even trying? Do you just not want kids?" :/

It makes me wanna cry, I wanna be happy for friends and family but at the same time I am dying a little inside. After five years ttc my family should be complete, instead I have nothing!!

Since I've started trying more than 10 people that I know got pregnant without even trying! Its awful :(

You comented on my cm post. Telling me I should of put it private. I also comented on your tests sending my prayers your way. I know it hurts so so bad. I suffered infertility for 2 years and mc and cried and cried myself to sleep every night. I know the pain suffering infertility. And no it's natural to be mad and angry at women getting pregnant. Your hunane and hurting. I know you been ttc a lot longer then 2 years I was ttc. I wish you the best, and pray you get your beautiful pregnancy and baby soon. It brings tears to my eyes and breaks my heart for you. Please know that miracles happen. And one day some way some how it will be your turn. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Ttc those two years I hated everyone getting pregnant and would cry seeing a women pregnant. While I was going through hell. My cousin got pregnant 6.5 years ttc with a beautiful 5 month old baby girl.

My sister in law got pregnant twice in both her tubes 6 months apart and lost both her tubes. She did 3 rounds of ivf and now has a baby boy after 7 years loosing her tubes. I was even hurt when she got pregnant b4 me but happy for her at the same time. Another friend ttc 5 years tried every fertility treatment that failed and now has a beautiful baby that she conceived naturlly. Dreams do come true no matter how long the road to those dreams take. Don't feel bad about being angry about other women getting pregnant, when your suffering so bad. Sorry if you didn't like seeing my cm. I only put it up to try to show other women what mine looked like after ttc so long and so many infertility problems. I really hope you get pregnant soon with a sticky baby all the best and I hope your tears turn into joy. I still remember seeing your pod test and you saying you ttc so many years and was so upset for you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers xxxxx