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Is this baby mine?
Ok so I'm asking on this site because i need logical female advice. Met this woman we were sexually involved from november 1st until december 31st. I believe she was involved with other men but when i confronted her she gets upset, ive always asked for a DNA test and she also argues and says well you wont speak to me ever again etc. We had sex the last week of November but i didnt ejacualte in her majority of the time. December 3rd i did and january 4th she was exactly 6 weeks confirmed by sonogram . Now keep in mind the 3rd week of nomvember she had her period from what she told me. We didn't have sex for about 2 weeks. Now fast forward until now, i havent seen her since she was 6 weeks pregnant. Shes not due until august 26th but she can barely get of the sofa and shes wobbling. I already had my doubts and elderly women in my family keep saying it looks like shes due this month instead of the end of next month PLEASE help me out. This girl is making me feel like a scum!
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4 Answers • 8 years ago
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Going of those dates, depending on her cycle length, then Yes, it could be your baby.
6 Weeks on January 4th, with a 28 day cycle, puts her last period starting approx 23 November. Just like she said, with ovulation around the 6/7 December. If you had sex on December 3rd, then that puts it right in the fertile time. Based on the dates shes given you, definitely possible its yours.
As to her size, Im sorry but some people carry huge and some people carry a lot more compact, and just because someone it older or has had children, doesn't mean they know how far along someone is by looking at the size of their belly!!!
Have you been to any appointments with her? The doctors would be doing measurements, and would likely say out loud exactly how far along she is. Have you Seen any paperwork that has dates on it? Any sonogram pics would have the date it was done printed on it.
Women lying about paternity is pretty bad. But a negligent father is just as bad. Do some investigating!
8 years ago
I agree with the other poster. The dates line up where it is possible to be your baby. Even if you don't ejaculate, she can get pregnant off of "pre-cum."
The confusing thing is the way pregnancy is counted. How many weeks she is is based off of her last period, not the actual time of conception. At 6 weeks pregnant, it had only been 4 weeks since she got pregnant, assuming she ovulates on day 14 of her menstrual cycle.
Also, if she were sexually active with other men between the dates of December 2 - 7 then it is a possibility that she could have conceived with someone else. But there is really no way to know without a DNA test. I would try to set that up when she delivers.
Tough situation. Be there for her in case it is your baby. Even if you're not together, you need to build a relationship with her, so you can eventually build a relationship with your child, if it is yours.
Good luck, and next time use a condom, bro!
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