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Can anyone else relate?

Miscarriages can drive you insane! I recently got my bfp and at 15 dpo(i think) my test lines are darker than the control line on frer but i cant stop worrying, testing daily, checking to see if i am bleeding. Will this worry stop? I had 2 cps back to back ebd of last yr and that hit me hard. I am just scared to get too excited incase something awful happens. Dont think i can handle another loss even though everything seems to be going amazingly Alhamdullilah.

Anyone else feel this way?


Jinan (5-Aug-2008), Yunus (4-march-2014) , my angel bean (24-may-2013), angel bean 27/nov/14, angel bean 29/dec/14 User Image

3 Answers • 9 years ago


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After having experienced a mc and even if it was one only you will feel this way. When I achieve pregnancy I get reassurances by getting a few HCG blood tests done to see if the numbers are doubling and then I request an early ultrasound for peace of mind. After the first successful ultrasound the chances for a mc go down and after the first trimester even further. Worrying isn't healthy and won't change anything. Also, you are stronger than you think, you can handle whatever will happen! Try to relax and say a prayer. Best to you.

9 years ago


Thank you mozart. You are right, worrying won't fhange anything. I will gonget an early ultrasound done next week and praying for the best! Thank you for your response


Jinan (5-Aug-2008), Yunus (4-march-2014) , my angel bean (24-may-2013), angel bean 27/nov/14, angel bean 29/dec/14 User Image

9 years ago • Post starter


I had 3 early miscarriages and am now 31 weeks with my 4th pregnancy. I can tell you that I went through at least 25 hpts this pregnancy. I had to keep checking that it was darker and I got the clear blue digital tests to make sure I got the 1-2, 2-3 and 3+ weeks results. It's natural to be worried after traumatic losses. Once I saw 2 good ultrasounds I bought a home doppler so I could check the baby's heartbeat whenever I wanted which was great. It was only about $50 on ebay...best $50 I ever spent because it gave me so much peace of mind. Oh, and I still check the toilet paper every trip to the bathroom, so that worry still hasn't gone away. I think I will worry until this baby is safely in my arms!

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