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Hi sincerely_kp92

I'm 25 and my first BFP was after 11 months of trying, but ended in a mc. So now still trying. My husband's sperm is all fine and I have no problems as far as I know. Long story short: all was fine and it took us quite long anyway to get our first BFP. And I have had the some thought a lot ("I probably can't conceive"). It's normal to think that when it takes longer than you had hoped. Hang in there for another while, and if nothing has happened after a year, you can get some tests done to see what's going on.

Btw, do you have long cycles? I have and because of it, I have only 9 cycles in a year, instead of 13 like 28-days cycle women. So that's another reason why it could take a while.

Best of luck to you and lots of baby dust!!!

Alice

After you and you be have sex try to just prop you butt up on a pillow for 20 mintues at least! Or if you're like me and can't sit still afterwards invest in a menstrual cup and after you have sex insert it. Keep using your opks and enjoy the sex. Relax and don't think about it.

Hi there! It took my husband and I quite some time too but we mistakenly followed those fertility apps that tell you the roundabout time you will ovulate… boy were those ever so wrong!!! my apps were off by 2 whole weeks!!! its no wonder I had such a hard time. I ordered some Ovulation tests (I suggest the clear blue digitals bc they are a no brainer) and BAM I was pregnant the first month after using them!