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Hi,

3 months is not very long to be trying. That's only 3 eggs! Possibly Only 36 hours of time than an egg was available for fertilization!! Medical professionals say that up to 12 months for a perfectly healthy couple is normal! So don't start stressing yet!

When are you using the OPKs? What brand?
Are you testing more than once a day? Ive had a negative in the morning, followed by a blazing positive on the afternoon, then back to negative by morning. So its possible to miss detecting your surge.

Hey Mistique,

Thanks for the prompt reply !

i have used Homecheck ovulation kit and I can too and use it once a day in between 12-2 pm whenever possible. I have started having folic acid last 3 months. Also I used to be very athletic before, but then stopped exercising since last one year. I have again started going to gym, but was thinking if this is good as I am ttc !!

Keeping healthy is the best thing you can do for TTC!
If i were you, I would be testing more often to see if you can detect a surge. The cheap OPKs i have used (from ebay) have always been as good or better than the more expensive ones. You can buy in bulk and test as often as you like! Some people have very quick surges, so if your only testing once a day, then you could be missing it.

Thanks Mistique !! Wish me luck :) m again positive !!

3 months isn't bad, I know you wish to be pregnant by now but try to take each day as it comes and don't try to stress too much. It took me 7 months to conceive my daughter naturally and what helped ease my mind was that I tried not to stress and made sure when my husband and I DTD that it was enjoyable. I also started taking prenatal's and drank green tea starting around cycle 4. I am currently ttc #2 after my M/C in December and last month I was feeling just like you but I started keeping my mind occupied by taking my daughter to the park more often and going for walks. I hope my advice helps you and hope you get pregnant soon! Good luck!

Don't give up hope! It took me no time to concieve #1 but it took me 3 YEARS for #2. The doctor probably won't do anything until you have tried for a year with no success. Good luck and baby dust!

Dear All..Thansk a lot for the positive vibes :) Well I believe this month too m not lucky as jus saw spottings adn m due tmorrow. But will try next month again with new hopes !!!

Guys ! I am a day late for my periods, but I have not taken the test as m scared to see negitive. I am feeling pain lik AF is coming , dunno proabbaly I get it at night.. Usualy m nv regular with my periods. Should I wait for some more days, please advise .. *fingers crosses#jitters*

And i had spottings 3 days ago lik AF ??? m confused :(

The only way to know will be to take a test!! Good luck :)