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I'm pregnant.. Should I retire my cheek piercings?

About 10 days ago I found out I was expecting. (Now 4w 5d)
I know it's still early days and anything could happen but it's still a factor that I want my baby to have seemingly a "normal" mom. I'm 19 and people already give me funny looks for my piercings, imagine the looks I'd get if I had them and was the size of a sailboat pregnant!
I have a job interview today, for a job that I really need in order to get a house and have the finances for the baby, so it's pretty important.
I've had my cheek piercings for about 2 years now, and my question is, should I take them out permanently?
I love them but I feel like I'm never going to get a job and be able to support my family if I keep them in.
If I take them out and something happens during the pregnancy or if I don't get this job, I'll be totally bummed out.
Have any of you given up a piercing or something similar for your family or job?

3 Answers • 9 years ago


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I had to take out my eyebrow piercing for a job I was a nursery nurse. I would take them out as you can always put them back in at a later date especially if you think they are hindering you getting a job. Good luck with everything.
Just wanted to say though society sucks I have over 13 tattoo's and the looks I have gotten too but the way I see it it's my body my life it makes me happy. :)


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9 years ago


I wouldnt take them out permanently, why would u change u who are so other people are happy to look at u? Thats just silly...F that! I'm 36 with two kids, I have my nose, lip, tongue, 15 in my ears (those arent always in cuz I'm too lazy to put 'em in and take 'em out at night), jugular notch and a few others below the neckline...I took 'em out for delivery and back in they went. I couldnt care less what other people think I should look like, and I invite any of them to try to tell me what I should do. If *anyone* says something to u, u hand them their very own shiny new asshole, and walk away!!
Keep 'em in!!! =))


9 years ago


If you absolutely feel that you need to take this job, maybe just get retainers for them... even if you were to let them close up the scars are still visible. I had issues with my lip piercings and had to take them out and now I have three scars on my bottom lip. I know people cant see them most of the time but I'm really self conscious about it and wish I still had my lip rings...
I have a nose ring though and stretched ears and multiple visible tattoos and always have funky colored hair. In my life, I wouldn't want to work anywhere that I couldn't be myself. I did for a while because it was the only option, but now I'm living in an area with a lot more job opportunities... they aren't really well paying jobs, but as long as I can pay my bills and keep my child fed and clothed I'm happy =)

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