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I lied 2 him & now im PREGNANT? HeLPP plz!!!
ok I never thought I woud be n this position because I didn't think I could even have kids or get pregnant because I had pelvic inflammatory.! So me & my friend Jesse have known each other for about 4 months or so. I told him I was on birth control when I actually have never been on BC. I did this mainly because I hate condoms & I WANT a baby! but I NEVER for one minute thought I would actually get pregnant! according 2 my doctor & from my ultrasound/last period im almost 9 weeks! I am SO happy. Jesse doesn't have any kids & im so scared 2 tell him about this! how do I go about this? does anyone have any advice im 20 he is 27. do u think he will be mad? ugh im so happy/scared at the same time!
3 Answers • 9 years ago
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It certainly wasn't right that you deceived him. You violated his trust and even though he might be happy about the baby you will have to work on your relationship trying to repair the damage you did. You have to be fully transparent from now on. Wishing the 3 of you all the best.
9 years ago
I think you should definitely brace yourself for a negative reaction from him. He will probably be angry that you lied to him about the BC. You could explain to him that you thought you couldn't have kids and didn't think you would get pregnant, but he is still going to feel deceived. Hopefully he will be happy about the child regardless, but it might take him a little while to get to that happy place and sort thru the shock and negative emotions associated with the lie. You might have to give him a little space after you tell him. Good luck!
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