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I'm so sorry this keeps happening to you :( I feel your pain, it's absolutely awful and heartbreaking to even think about not being able to have a child. The only thing I've found that works is to just keep living. No matter how badly we want to you can't go back and change things, you can only go forward. Fingers crossed for a sticky baby for you in the future. Xx

I'm sorry Hun I know what it feels like. You just gotta keep strong and don't give up. I've been threw the same, I had 3 miscarriages in a row and I wouldn't let it beat me and 4th time lucky I now have a beautiful baby girl. You can do it, if you ever fancy a chat just message me I'm always here if you need someone to talk to xx

Have you been to the ob or had a repeat pregnancy loss blood panel done? It could just be luck since you seem to get pregnant easily. Usually after 3 in a row though it's not just coincidence. It could be as simple as having low progesterone for example which makes it difficult for a pregnancy to thrive and continue but there could be a ton of other explanations. I highly suggest trying to find an answer so you don't keep going through this month after month. For me after 3 early losses it was determined that I had immune and clotting issues. I took antibiotics for a month before trying again to eliminate any possible unknown uterine infections, then started corticosteroids to keep my body's immune system from overreacting and thinking the embryo was a foreign body and I also started blood thinning injections to keep clots from forming in the early placenta and cutting off blood supply to the embryo. One or more of those 3 things worked because I am now 22 weeks pregnant!

Hi firstly I'm sorry your are experiencing this. I would have to say firstly, stop testing before you have missed your AF then you will not be putting yourself through this. It is also possible you are experiencing some evaps on those dipsticks you are using. Are you using first response tests and seeing actual progression over time and then seeing it fade away, making it a chemical.
I have been through 4 miscarriages and 2 chemicals and 3 d&c surgeries to have them removed as they were all after seeing heartbeats. But I never gave up as I promised my daughter I would give her a sibling. I am now 31 weeks pregnant. I went to hell and back, but had faith and never gave up. If a baby is what you want then you need to stay strong. Work through the process, see a OB have some tests run and figure out what is going on, if it is chemicals that you are experiencing, maybe there is a problem with implanting stages. Best of luck, stay strong.

I have had blood drawn, watch hcg levels rise and then fall. They have me on Provera now, so I guess we will see what happens. I'm so tempted to just stop trying so hard and let whatever happens happen. But...I want a baby so badly, I can't bring myself to give up. Hopefully, one of these babies will end up sticking one day soon!!!! Thank you all for your kind words. :) it does help.