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I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage - so heartbreaking.
I miscarried at 8 weeks in January 2014, it still upsets me - we try to think of it now that we have a little Angel watching us!
Please don't blame yourself or wonder if it was anything you did!! These things happen, and usually for the better because something wasn't right! I wasn't aware of how common miscarriages actually are.
You'll have a beautiful baby one day soon!! In the meantime take care of yourself!!!

My heart breaks for you! I had an early MC in July and it was very devastating. Let you self be sad and know there are a lot of us women/mothers that are with you and know you pain. There are a part of me that felt like i should not be as sad as I was because I was only 6 wks along (we had knows for 2 weeks I was pregnant) and If i can give any advise to you it is that is it a loss and don't ever feel like you should not be sad - let your self morn.

prayers to you

Thank you ladies for your love, kind words and support. I'm very heart broken, I've been crying non-stop since this morning. Me and my husband where very excited and now we both feel at a loss. I'm scattered into a million pieces :,(

Oh sweetheart. I know it doesn't feel like it but you will survive this. I've had two miscarriages in the past and even now there's moments where I wonder who they were. I went on to have two more children so please, you are not without hope. I did go through moments where I felt, no, I want the lost babies, not a new baby but these thoughts do ease. I wish you well and I'm sure you'll be smelling like baby puke really soon. :)

Reading your post brought me back to my first miscarriage (miscarried at about 7 weeks also) back in March of 2013. Me and my husband were so excited and could hardly contain our joy that we were pregnant, so naturally we told our whole family. I remember how heartbroken I was when I started to bleed and realized that we were having a miscarriage... I don't think I have ever cried quite like that. I cried hard for the first 3 days and after that the tears came at random times. My husband told me that he felt like he would never be happy again. Those emotions are completely normal!
The good news is that you will feel happiness again. We had 2 more miscarriages after that (both at 5 weeks) and it took us 8 months from the first miscarriage to conceive our precious baby girl that we have now. During those 8 months I did cry frequently, but I also experienced a lot of great moments that made me smile. My heart aches for you right now. It's okay to cry and be angry... Best wishes to you.

I am not going through this right now, but before I got pregnant with my daughter I had a miscarriage around 6 weeks, and a chemical pregnancy around four weeks. My daughter is now eighteen months old, and we are TTC again.

I remember feeling as if I was stuck in this dark pit, wondering if I did something wrong. If I could have prevented it. The truth is, miscarriages aren't our fault, but they are devastating.

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage.

I'm going through the same thing currently. I had the dreaded Blighted Ovum and didn't find out until I thought I should have been 8 weeks, 5 days. It is awful. They put me on Misoprotol to help induce the miscarriage as they said there could be complications if I try and let it happen naturcally but now I may need a D&C as the medication did not remove everything. It has been a horrible experience but I just want you to know you're not alone. Hopefully we both get our rainbow babies sooner rather than later!

I am SO very sorry for your loss :( There are no words to take away the pain you are going through. I have been there. 7-17-13 is when I lost my angel at 8 weeks along. Mine started the same as yours, but I was at work when it happened. You are not alone. So many of us have struggled with this pain and sadly the pain doesn't go away, it just slightly dulls. I am praying for you. *hugs*