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You are very young and so is your man, try to relax and treat each other better that you treat anyone outside you relationship. Do you want even want a baby at the present time? If not you should focus on your health. It is a bit concerning that you got Chlamydia. You cycles are still good even though they have changed a bit. (I personally would avoid the IUDs as I think it is horrible having those things up there!) Time is on your side, so you should enjoy life no matter if you have a baby or not. Trust me one will come

Hi
are you controlling your ovulation? you don't have to have sex everyday as the sperm will loose its speed and quality it's better to have every other day during 5 days before ovulation and the day ovulation of course and 1 day after the ovulation. in these days your are most fertile.

Good luck and don't think about it too much this is my advice to you.

Hello!
So first of all I just want to say to take a moment to just relax. I will not say you have plenty of time because I hated and still hate hearing that.
Second how long did you have the STD before you found out and were treated? Some STD can cause infertility. Mostly due to scaring.
How long have you been TTC? Sometimes after having an abortion and even after stopping BC it can take months maybe even a year to get your body back on track.
I suggest having intercourse every other day. I also suggest looking into a sperm friendly lubrication. Some kill the sperm and immobilize them.
If you have tried to conceive for 12 months I suggest you see a healthcare provider. If you are TTC you should go get a checkup at your OBGYN and express any concerns you may have so you can find a solution.
Best of luck to you!