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Worried for Disappointment

We have been trying for our second child for nearly 3 years. We've pretty much left up to nature. My last AF was on 9/28/14, I have pretty regular 28 day cycles. We tried to conceive on 10/11/14. My next AF is supposed to be 10/26, but yesterday morning I started noticing come light bleeding when I would wipe, I put on a pad just to be safe, nothing made it to the pad all day yesterday. Today it is a little heavier, still not heavy, but heavier than yesterday. COlor ranges from pink to red. For about 5 days I have been having lower abdominal cramps (light). Yesterday and today I am very nauseous, and for the past couple of days I have been tired and have had a weird taste in my mouth. I have taken a HPT and it was negative. I was hoping that I had just taken it too early. What do you all think? Did I just get my AF early?

8 Answers • 9 years ago


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You still have time, seems like you have implantation bleeding. If you have a regular consistent 28day cycle then your period is very early. Im in the same cycle as you but my AF is due 10/25 so I'm waiting after that date to test. Best wishes to you, it seems that this month is yours. God bless you and keep me updated

9 years ago


twin#1 Thank you so much for the words or encouragement. I am trying hard not to stress too much over what might or might not be going on but it's hard not too, lol. Only time will tell, I am just going to wait and see how long this bleeding lasts and what happens next.

9 years ago • Post starter


Update, the flow of bleeding has not increased at all today, in fact it may be a little lighter this afternoon.I have not filled up a pad all day, in fact I could have probably gotten away with a liner today. I am not quite as nauseous as I was this morning but I have been having a few flutters in my stomach this afternoon; hard to describe them, almost like someone tugging on my shirt but in my stomach/uterus area. I am trying to hard to stay positive and live by my motto: What is meant will happen

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Hey anwocox, I understand the disappointment of trying for so long for #2. My DH and I tried for over 3 years before I became pregnant with #2. I had crazy cycles, I would have all the symptoms that with #1 indicated pregnancy but this time just normal PMS, every month! I had one cycle that went for over 40 days with no AF and no BFP :( It sounds like you could be experiencing implantation bleeding. I would wait until AF is due and then test. With #2 I had no unusual symptoms. The only indication I had that this time might be different was the fact that I had previously been checking my cervix and I noticed it was higher than usual for that time in my cycle. Good luck and Baby dust!

9 years ago


Thanks for the comments, it is so hard just waiting beca all I do at this point is keep waiting. I am trying hard not to obsess about the possibility of another dissappoitment but it is so hard. We really want another child! I'm at the point now I am starting to wonder if some of my "symptom" are just wishful thinking. It's so nice to have a place like this to share. I sure hope I have some great need to share with you and my husband in a few days.

9 years ago • Post starter


Update for tonight, bleeding has gotten lighter and has some egg white discharge mixed in. All other symptoms have gone :(. No fluttering, no nausea, no cramping, no nothing. I guess it was just a lot of wishful thinking, but maybe in a few days I'll have something good to report.

9 years ago • Post starter


Took a HPT this morning first thing and a BFN, I'm go to take another closer to the weekend but I alrea feel another disappointment building

9 years ago • Post starter


Well today the bleeding is only there when I wipe. Also I have had to unbutton by pants and hold them together with a rubber band I am so bloated, lol. It actually hurts my stomach when I sit down and have to lean on my desk to work on the computer. I am going to stop by the store on the way home and buy a couple more tests and do my best to wait until the weekend to take them.
My husband and I discussed it last night and he feels that this should be our last attempt, he think our hearts and my sanity can not take nay more let downs.

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