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Trying for #2 and a maid of honor
My little sister has asked me to be her maid (matron) of honor and without hesitation I said yes. She's planning for a June 2015 wedding, venue is set.
We've recently decided to start trying for #2. So, my question is when should I tell her? I feel like I want to wait until conception and I'm through the first trimester. I recently suffered a mc and no one knows about it other than my husband and I'd like to keep it that way.
I know how important your wedding day is too, so I'm torn.
Any advice or experience?
3 Answers • 9 years ago
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If you are trying this month and next month then you will be due in May/June which means you might have to miss her wedding completely. My matron of honor and her husband wanted to try for #3 but they waited until closer to the time of the wedding to start trying so that she wasn't due around the time of the wedding. I would consider waiting until October to start trying so that your not due around the time of the wedding. If you don't want to wait then I would give your sister a heads up so that you both have a chance to talk about it before it becomes an issue.
9 years ago
memberThe real question I think is, is she the sort of woman who would be a bit of a "bridezilla" about all her bridesmaids looking perfect on that day? Since it's your sister, she would probably want you in the bridal party no matter what, even if you were big as a house ;) Also remember that you may not get pregnant right away, so you don't want to put your life on hold...it's a tough choice but you might want to put some feelers out there for her bridezilla potential ;)
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