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Low count and motility with low sex drive....HELP!!

Hubby has low count and motility and on top of that has low sex drive due to deppresion :(
im so lost here dont know how to deal with this,we have been ttc for 3yrs and i feel so alone.
I know none of this is his fault and i am supporting him as best i can but i cant help my feelings,i love him to bits and would love to have his baby and i know he wants a baby to.
Just dont know how to get "him going".
I feel like hes not interested in me anymore :(
idk just felt like having a rant about my problems thanx for reading Xx


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3 Answers • 9 years ago


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I have not been in this situation but I know a couple of members on this site that are dealing with low morphology issues. MrsWelchiii asked one week ago "low sperm morphology, what's next?". You can find this under old questions/Fertility Issues on pg 1. I answered that question then also, and referred to another member, LSchrader who is in a similar position. I would send both messages to get information on the low morphology issue. I am sure they will be happy to hear from you. Hope this helps.

9 years ago


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I am in a similar situation minus the depression (for my DH it's a sleep disorder that causes it). Is he on any anti-depressants that are affecting his sex drive? Changing the medication, if he has one, might help, as might adding Viagra or Cialis (at least to take during your fertile period) to at least help with physical arousal. We also BD first thing in the morning when men's sex drive is highest. That might help. Fertility vitamins can aid the sperm issues. So sorry you're dealing with this :( It has nothing to do with your attractiveness!

9 years ago


Momtom: thank you i think i will have a look at the other posts and see what info i can get and will contact the other girls to :)

Luvtowalkfast: yes he is on anti-depressants and seroquels this is his 3rd anti-depressant as the others didnt agree with him.
I will suggest the viagra and cialis and see what he says (he is abit hard to talk to about that sort of thing)
i have him on a multivit and he has cut down on coffee and dosent drink anymore so fx it will help.
As for bd in the morning i dont usually have time except for weekends as i have to take my lo to school :( life just dosent seem to agree with me atm lol.
I know in my heart its not how i look but just get down about it and cant help feeling a tad self concious :/


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