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NykolLDowney

Is it bad? Does it make me a horrible person because of it?

My fience has a son. And currently we are sitting at his baby mamas house. I can't even be in the same room with them without bursting into tears. As we speak I'm in the truck and he's inside visiting. Does it make me a horrible person that I'm sorry envious of him having a baby that I can't control my emotions at a time like this? I was always told I can't conceive.. But that just makes me want one more. I've been having baby fever terribly here lately and just being around them is aweful for me. Its more torture than pleasant. I don't wanna be that girl. I just don't know what to do... Every time I see his son I wish he was mine. But he isn't. Ugh I need advice.

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Tottie36

I'm sorry you feel like this, but couldn't you be the next best thing and be little ones step mummy, it would help with your yearning to be a mummy,
Have you sought second opinion about your fertility x

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NykolLDowney

My fience told me that he didn't want anymore kids because he has one. Though he didn't mean it. Or so he says words like that stick. He isn't on the same page so I haven't, feeling it would be a waste of time.

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Mississippigirl03

I think you guys should have a chat about what you want in terms of family before tying the knot.

And it is his kid, if your arent able to keep it together and be a part of the childs life, i ont see how your relationship will work long term.

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opalfoxy

It is totally understandable but your man is probably saying he I don't need anymore babies to comfort you. I recently lost my son and everyone is getting me to cuddle their babies because they believe it increases you chance of having your own!

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