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How would you feel if your boyfriend cheated on you after spending your 10 year anniversary

the big problem is the woman he cheated on me with is pregnant and he thinks it is his he and as for her she said kept it on purpose so he could leave me for that's the reason why I told I am pregnant cu am not happy with the situation please help me. he says he loves me and will always do he is sorry and doesn't want to be with her I don't know what more to do or think.

6 Answers • 10 years ago


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Leave! Sorry to be so blunt, but if he truly loved u, he wouldnt have touched her...PERIOD! He's not sorry, he's sorry he got caught and u better believe it WILL happen again. Leave, plain n simple. U dont deserve that and there are plenty of men out there who will say "I love u" and mean it!!!


10 years ago


Leave him ! Be strong ! Xoxoxo

10 years ago


You shouldn't even be thinking about it. You know what to do. LEAVE! If you keep him then he will think he can get away with it again and he WILL do it again. It's common sense. Be smart, use your brain, not your heart. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Stay strong.

10 years ago


Get out and leave him to her.

If you don't, you will end up losing faith in both yourself and him. In time, it will all fall apart anyway. Any agreement you make now will be a charade won't keep you together for long. What happens when he wants to spend time with his child? Especially if you're still not able to conceive, this is going to be a major slap in the face. How will you know he's not cheating on you again if he's done it before? The trust you had is broken. How can it be repaired?

You show love through actions not just words. He has shown you he doesn't respect you and that deep down he doesn't love you enough to be faithful. Saying no to him now is saying yes to yourself. Respect yourself and leave. Don't even enter into a discussion. Just go.

In time, you may find someone worthy of your love and affection - who will give you the respect you deserve and who you can trust, completely and fully. But it is not this man. He had his chance with you and he's blown it.


5 years TTC. Endometriosis and adenomyosis. Surgery. 2 IVFs. No joy. Low ovarian reserve. Is there any real hope? DE IVF = next step. Much higher success rates, but so used to things not working, it's hard to feel too hopeful. Wishing others an easier time.

10 years ago


How would I feel? Single. I would feel single!! While you're wasting time with the wrong man the right man will pass you by. You have Nothing to lose by gathering your dignity, holding your head high and walking away. No drama, no regrets just a future you control. You're the boss of you. It's ok to feel sad, but feeling free of this mess will give you a natural high no amount of his lame apologies could ever give you. Walk away. Now. Xo

10 years ago


Its easier said to just leave him. But we both know you're reading these posts and you have contemplated it but you don't feel like you are strong enough to make that kind of decision. 10 years is a long time. You have grown comfortable with each other. That's all you know is him. Well think of it this way. All he's going to know is he's that baby's father and he wants to be there for it. You grow comfortable with him as he's frowning tired of you. I hate to be so blunt but I'm looking at it from your point. The only way you're actually going to leave is if your pissed. The man you have dedicated your life too not only ruined your relationship he also got another woman PREGNANT that's a big step. And you can't tell him he can't see the child because that's going to make him leave. Save yourself the time trying to mend what's broken. Instead use that time to grieve the lost. Afterwards Go get your hair done your nails go buy a new outfit and go have fun. YOU DESERVE HAPPYNESS ALSO.

10 years ago


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