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Giving up continued.

I posted about giving up after having 8 miscarriages in total and also not able to conceive and having Asherman's.

Well I go on friday to start the pill...its been so many years...i am anxious and two minds about taking it. I can not go through any more mentally but I keep worrying if I take the pill what if I am destroying one cycle that it might have been my chance.

I know I am being silly but for some reason I am genuinely upset about it all :(

How do we give up...does the pain get easier?x

6 Answers • 10 years ago


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Hi! I can't imagine what you must be going through but just wanted to write that you're not alone. I know exactly what you mean about wondering "IF" you take that pill or don't bd if it was "your" cycle this time... Been there and know how that feels. I'm so sorry for all your losses and hope that you get your bfp with a sticky bean in the near future if you continue to try! Hugs!


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10 years ago


IS it absolutely impossible for you to get preggo? Why go on the pill if there is ever that possible chance... my sister tried for 7 years, gave up, but didn't go on the pill, and now has a gorgeous 1 year old! I dunno, I'm a firm believer that doctors dont know or control everything! I for one have seen many people that have defied the odds.... people living that were given a death sentence, people living life with children that were told it would never happen.... Of course this is a decision you have to make, but do remember that miracles happen every day! :-) Keep your head up!


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10 years ago


I have the same questions. IVF is too expensive for us and if my IUIs fail we will be giving up too. i also wonder how I will be able to let go of the dream of a baby. I know I will still keep hoping every month that maybe a miracle might have happened and be disappointed every month still when AF comes. The possibility will be in the back of my mind every month. It is probably a habit after all these years TTC


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10 years ago


Would a surrogate be a possibility? I have not seen anyone mention something like that on here.....


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10 years ago


Thanks for the info guys...yes a good friend from university offered to be a surrogate for us...but il need time to think about it and it would have to be all legally etc....

I did it, i started back on the pill today, the doctor also put me on anti anxiety meds, and valium to help me get over it...thanks for the support <3

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Ps best of luck to you all <3 <3

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