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Giving up. Wish all you ladies well <3

After 8 miscarriages, I was going to do IVF this cycle as my husband and I have unexplained infertility.

I recently found out its due to Asherman's syndrome. You ladies should get checked for it...if you have recurrent miscarriages...also if you have given birth or ever had a DNC...its more common than we think...but people are usually fobbed off with the unexplained infertility bracket.

Symptoms are period type pains but no bleeding, or very light periods. I have had cycles as long as 115 days.

I was told the IVF wont work...so we have decided to give up...and I am going to learn to have to live without children.

You know when things suck when you are scared of getting a BFN and also terrified of BFP.

please if you having issues please ask about this.

Best of luck and love, Aly Xx <3

8 Answers • 10 years ago


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Much love to you and sorry for your losses. I've been told IVF will not work for me due to my age. I'm doing IUI, IVF is dam expensive anyway and the finances of it all can ruin peoples lives. I too might have to give up. I've been there once before, start planning all those wonderful things you can do without littles :)

10 years ago


I'm very sorry for your losses and I hope you are gonna be ok. Maybe adoption could be an option. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers dear. <3

10 years ago


Thanks guys, Its really hard Opalfoxy isn't it! It totally sucks but you are so right...we are already planning a vacation of a life time to help relax and de stress....Good luck with your treatment....and thanks 'crazymomto2' x x x

10 years ago • Post starter


I'm so sorry for your fertility struggles and your heartache. I hope that you know how contagious your positive attitude is! The best of luck. xoxoxo

10 years ago


Thanks Merchant, it makes more sense to try and look on the bright side...its been a long 5 years of heartache.. :D :D :D xXXXx Im starting a blog on perks of infertility

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I feel ya! We are doing at most 3 cycles of IUI with donor sperm and if still there is no pregnancy, we are throwing in the towel also. IVF is way out of the price range I want to spend and we are getting older too. I keep wondering how I will be able to let go of the dream. I will always wonder if maybe a miracle will happen every month.


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10 years ago


My sister and a close friend experienced what you are explaining and they both conceived! they went on birth control for a bit to regulate cycles and once their cycles were regulated a few months they got off of it and tried "FERtILE SEED" which I believe this site sells along with ovulation predictors and preg tests. Its like a lube that aids in helping get pregnant. if you used other lubes, it might have inhibited It as well. I have been pregnant over 9 times and I have 4 kids, and I know miscarriage is terrible.. I just had one recently myself...its rough..but sometimes the stress of it all can hinder pregnancy.

10 years ago


I wanted to add*** that I see you did conceive but had miscarriages, which I am terribly sorry for...but just remember dr's don't know everything and they are not right 100 percent of the time. I am sure many dr's have told many women they would probably never conceive and a little miracle pops up down the road when its least expected. Good luck to you 0;)

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