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I have a couple journal posts on my page of what I did when I conceived my son 14 months ago. Go check them out. Good luck!!!

have dates(the fruit), raisens and take your folic acid, also honey and cinnimon 1 tsp a day, drink water and fruit juice dump the soda, eat less take out, eat protiens and take a prenatal vitamin, you even get ones especially for ttc, try and get hubby/partner to do the same you get men vitamins but he can just take plain old folic acid, try and have a balanced diet without being anal about it, and treat yourselves some times dont ban the chocs and ice cream, you also need to be happy when trying to get preg so elimninate unessary stress, do some light exercise and pray/meditate, spend tim together bonding and have sex for fun not based on o if you not in the mood dont force it thats stress, love makes babies not sex, these are the things we tried and im sure it was a combination of things and factors , it was just our time, yours will come soon but enjoy the road there. we wish we realised that sooner we would have had so much fun but hey these things take practice lol

on a SLIGHTLY FUNNY NOTE, we decided to enjoy sex and bought some toys to spice things up, also bought a fertility microscope, both very expensive, basically we used them all once each cos i got a pos that cycle lol go figure! we didnt have sex in 1st tri cos i had a previous mc and we had some during the second if i was willing lol and the third trimester i can bearly turn from side to side to go pee so sexual acrobatics are a big no no lol, all the best to you relax and enjoy this journey it onbly comes once in your life, then its babies and kids and less couple time, its not bad just different and your love grows differently cos priorities change and you love sharing more than sex, cos you share life, only your partner will know your looks and reasons for exaustion its a deeper bond, pray its the same for you and all the ladies that read this, i thought i cant wait to get preg but now i think wish i enjoyed the journey more, but we are greatful, and wouldnt change a thing

its our 1st due in the 4 th of may! so excited cant wait to meet him now