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Rude people ( no need for it)

I really enjoy seeing everyones stories and progress and love reading the success stories and having a bond with other people on the same boat. However I think I am going to close my page due to people being so rude on here now.

I see people vote neg on positive tests, women being rude to other women...its a real shame as it's an amazing site but gone down hill real quick lately. I think there needs to be some kinda of monitoring going on!

We are all in the same boat, I don't see the point in being vile and childish when this situation is difficult enough.

5 Answers • 10 years ago


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I completely agree with you aly1088! I was just thinking this the other day. I've also stopped using Countdown MY pregnancy because it seems as if everyone on there is very rude and inconsiderate of others. I had asked a simple question and received answers as 'You're dumb and don't know what you're talking about', 'You need fertility help'...which all aren't even true! I have two wonderful and healthy babies and I've also went to Nursing school classes! It honestly made me so mad I was on the verge of tears, emailed the support team and told them I wanted to be deleted because there were too many rude and negative people on there! I have yet to receive any reply to my email.

10 years ago


Awww no I am sorry to hear that. I have had a few incidents recently where I have seen people be rude to others and I think wtf. Today people were voting neg on a test....(we can only vote as we see it) its hard as you know to tell from a computer...and the person got all rude because people were voting neg. I don't see why people put a post up if they don't like the possible outcome. I try to go through many questions that I know about and post as so many go unanswered. I know its not possible to answer all. I just think it needs more moderation. Recently a few have added me on facebook to keep in contact as I really don't like using this now...even although it used to be really good. it's ashame the minority have to ruin it for others x

10 years ago • Post starter


This is awful. I have not been a victim or seen any of this but it's awful to hear it goes on. I hope who ever runs the site are able to do something as it would be such a shame to delete your account when it should be those who are not being nice to be banned i would think.


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10 years ago


I heard the Bump.com forums were the best, went there and got chewed out, made fun of and belittled and didnt know why ON MY FIRST POST haha. It was because I didnt read the "rules" which arent official and not the first post so i didnt know about them, also I had my question anwsered and the ppl who commented after were extremely rude. On top of that ppl didnt tell me in the rude comments they put they just made fun and were extremely rude. I think if ppl who are nice leave, then noone is left for the new ppl but the rude ones. Dont let rude ppl make u leave and not help or bond with others :)
Then again i havent really gone back to the bump lol...

10 years ago


Hey iv had read ones when a 19 yr old had a 2 yrs old and people judged her for that it's not fair! It was on another sight and I just logged off. It's true there are a lot of people just looking for advice from people's experiences ! Yes we are all different but it don't cost anything for support! Don't leave this site I have spoken to lovely people and think we need more to drown out the bad. After all the people on the receiving end will need more support and reassurance than ever! Xxxxxx

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