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Why its so difficult to TTC. ???

I tested yesterday i got 1 li'l something like positive. but 4 negative. and again got negative today. i am thinking that i am not pregnant yet.
I have been trying now for 6 months. Every month tests with negative results. I get worried and tensed every time. I have lost my concentration in studies and work.
when I write here and somebody give answer I feel some relax coz there r many like me been trying also. Why its so hard. Every time i lost my temper i become crazy and mad. It makes me cry every time.
Hopefully God will listen my urge and I get two lined HPT test.

4 Answers • 10 years ago


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When it is time it will happen. Stressing and being Tense will just make it harder. Upon you next upcoming OD plan something fun for it. Calculate the date it should be then for the days around it your not TTC Act like your in your teens again and your hiding from parents trying not to get caught doing the naughty. Make that you goal. Plan a mini vacation to a B&B or Stay-cation at a nice hotel. Fancy up the room rose petal candles, do it in the back seat of the car like teenagers, Sneak into to old room at mom and dad's! have fun with it Make a list of place to try with out getting caught. Focus on the fun of that experiment this time and not getting Prego, and if this experiments just so happens to take place over the course of your ovulation who knows! Two line to ya! I challenge you to find a lovers lane and go "parking".


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10 years ago


@1Wish430 - I love this answer! Made me smile. I've been TTC#1 since Aug 13. I'm 35, soon to be 35, and DH is 35. I'm trying to not stress but its really hard. Your response made me laugh and smile. Just wanted to thank you!

10 years ago


Since being on this site it got me thinking, why is it there are so many women on here who are TTC who seem to be doing everything right to "T" and having trouble. Not drinking, not smoking, taking temps, charting, calculating, testing, BD so much where it become a chore more than a "score", eating healthy, planning and jumping on the roller coaster each month and having anxiety for two weeks during our TWW and when the BFN arrives sad visit from our AF. We see the younger generation or the other end of the spectrum such as who are not TTC or don't need more kids - they don't chart, graph, test, treat their bodies like a temple, or know their OD, or those "it takes one time", and get to BD for the fun of it and don't taking precautions always seem to multiply like bunnies. I mean no disrespect or no offense to them but it has made me wonder how much of what doctors tell us to do when TTC is right? I understand when tests prove a medical issue. They have fu


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10 years ago


I found this extremely helpful -- We have been trying for 6 months now. My husband wanted to just take it easy and have fun - I wanted to track everything !!!! We ended up having a chemical pregnancy over Labor Day weekend and since then I just keep getting frustrated and scared that this will never happen. So today I told my hubby that I want to do it his way. No more tracking - just having fun BDing and enjoying each other. I know it will happen when it's suppose to and I need to stop forcing. I'm so glad I am not the only one who feels frustrated. I also thought it'd be super easy to get pregnant and not take time (because all of my pregnant friends either accidentally got pregnant or only tried once). Thanks for letting me know I'm not alone -- may I ask if you have gotten pregnant since this post?

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