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I'm so sorry. I know just how you feel. It took us 12 years to get pregnant with our first daughter. After a year of tying for #2, I finally got pregnant and she passed away at 10 weeks. Although we've been trying for 4 months since, my husband announced to me that he's done. No more trying, no more anything. I don't know how to deal with it or where to go from there.

I hope we both get our heart's desire!

Oh I feel your pain! After 2 mc's and a chemical all in 2013 my hubby says no more :( I'm heartbroken. We don't use any birth control other than the pull out method (tmi) I find myself secretly hoping one will get by and ill get prego! Which isn't probably the healthiest mentality. It's tough on my marriage tho, bc I feel Ike I'm sacrificing a lot to agree to be done TTC. We do have 2 children and I'm very thankful for them. I think it's hard when I pictured having 5 to let the idea go. We had agreed on 3 before I had so many issues this year. I hope for you maybe yours is workable- mines not and it has caused me to have some resentments :( hang in there! You are not alone

I completely understand, I am in the same boat, Getting my AF when I charted my O , (TTC #3 )is a bummer.

When we got married my husband was dead set on no babies. We have 4 between us from previous marriages. Well he surprised me this year when he said let's do it. Even though by then I was already resigned to no more. We've been trying ..this will be my 4th cycle this week. And nothing. He's stressed feeling like less of a man and I'm stressed over weight gain, Clomid discomfort, etc. I really want this but I'm starting to think it's not a great idea. It's taking a toll on each of us emotionally and ultimately our relationship is suffering. It's so hard deciding but I think this is our last month actively trying. :(