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I can relate my dear. We have had 5 MC in 9 months. I am to the point where even the BFP make me leary because I always MC anyways.
I am also tired of the emotional let down and feel like it is never going to happen. It was so easy when we weren't trying and now that we are-it seems like that everything that could go wrong HAS gone wrong.
I am just ending the bleed from my most recent MC and am already thinking ahead.
Sometimes I feel like I should just quit and sometimes I feel like we HAVE to keep going. But I totally understand your pain.
If you ever wanna just vent-feel free to send me a message sometime. I'll always lend ya a shoulder and an ear :)
((HUGS)) and baby dust headed your way!

thank u. I feel lil bit ok now.. :)

Its crazy that we spend so many years trying not to get pregnant with people say you better be careful or you'll get pregnant. Then we try and nothing. I have recently been attempting to change my mind on even getting pregnant thinking maybe I shouldn't but I am sure I am only doing that because of the disappointment of negative tests.

Hang in there. Baby dust to you!

I get it. I'm on month 4 of trying... Idk how people go years like this. All of a sudden at least 10 people from my high school class either gave birth or are due between fall 2013 & this summer. Just when my last AF arrived as I was crying, another announcement appeared. My husband thinks we're too old. We are the same age as all those friends of mine. Can't stand it. We haven't told anyone we are trying. Want to surprise our families. So I can't even vent to anyone. But you're not alone in those feelings. It's far from easy.