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I'm in the same boat. Before ttc I thought you have sex and you get pregnant. TTC has changed me from a cool collected girl to a obsessive / depressed psycho. I feel like giving up but people keep encouraging me, so that is what I will do for you! You will get your wish! Keep it up girl! When it happens you will be so glad you didn't give up!

Thankyou.i just thought it would be easy.my first pregnancy was a happy surprise so I think im just being a bit hard on myself.i may take a break to reclaim my sanity for a month or 2 though and who knows I may have a happy surprise during that time too :)

Any updates? I just saw this question while browsing and I am in the same situation today, 15 dpo and no AF, but bfn. I am having symptoms but I'm feeling so stressed and frustrated, and I even cried to my husband - it's Valentine's day for heavens sake! I have no one to lean on in this situation because we are keeping it a secret from our families until it happens, and my husband just tells me "try not to think about it" (yea right, it's all I think about!) I just never imagined it would be this hard emotionally or physically. I would love to hear what's happening with you, good or bad. Baby dust!

Hi, af arrived very late in the end so still trying.my advice is not to get too stressed. I know its hard not to think about it constantly but try a distraction.a weekendaway or somethin that will take your mind off baby making and symptoms. Baby dust to u :)