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This is such a delicate situation. I don't have the answers for you, but I will be praying for you. I hope your dad is understanding and shows you grace and love! Best of luck to you!

Finally a question I feel like I can help with! It sounds like you are a very thoughtful person and know what to expect. The conversation itself will be uncomfortable but not necessarily a bad one. For strict dads, it works well to come prepared with a plan - how you will still attend college and work. He will want to know that you are using available resources to ensure your future. It also helps to bring something tangible - like a onesie of his favorite sports team or "my grandpa is #1." A lot of less emotional men find the cute little onesie to be a reminder of wonderful things to come. It also shows you have really considered him and his feelings/thoughts during this journey. I hope this helps!

You are a grown woman, with your own life and you definitely sound like a girl who knows what she wants :) I had the same problem with telling my dad, I left it until I was 18 weeks pregnant (believe it or not lol) I think being that far along was more of a shock to him to be honest, he was disappointed that I felt I couldn't tell him sooner. He was worried about me not being able to afford a baby and I told him he didn't have to worry... You need to reassure your dad that you will be fine and you know you can do this (tell him your plan) you already know that you want to stay in education and still have your baby, your dad should be proud of you for that... If he doesn't see it your way then prove to him you can do it, prove to him you are a woman/daughter to be proud of. Good luck x x x