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Yes you should tell him but I think you should do it before you go to the doctor just incase he wants to go with you and do it when his more calm and relax :) good luck a baby is always a blessing :)

I would say tell him asap. There are many of us on here wishing we were in your shoes right now. I am sure once he knows he will be happy.

Yes I agree with the last 2 posts how lucky u r that your body is perfect in its ability in making another human being, a position that all people in this site would love to be in. You should tell him as soon as you feel you can.

Luv Pete

Being pregnant is a game-changer. You will find out what you need to know by his reaction. When my friend got pregnant, her husband was a complete tool saying he wasn't sure if she should keep it... and she had to shout at him and I think a lemon was thrown in anger! She said that if he wanted she could leave him and bring up the baby on her own and he could live on his own and pass them on the street, wondering what his life would be like. Luckily, he soon adapted to his new situation and is the most amazing father. It just took a mind-shift for him. But be wary of the baby being used to gel a failing relationship - you will be connected with him for evermore - one way or another - only you know what the real situation is.

don't do it until YOU feel ready and comfortable to. xx