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My baby is about to turn one in a couple of weeks and I cant imagine having another lol but if you can handle it then totally go for it! I don't see why not. My best friend got pregnant with her second when her oldest was 9 months old and it hasn't been too bad. Her son has been jealous of the new baby but thats to be expected. I did read once though you should wait until you've gone a year without being pregnant before you try again though to help cut down ADD and ADHD. They are not sure why but having a baby a year or more after the first kid greatly reduces the chances of that. But that's all speculative really. Go for it!

I had 3 under 16 months and it had its moments but I loved it mine are now almost 5 (twins) and 3 1/2 and all close :) I say go for it!!!!

Why you askin us we dont have to carry them raise them pay for them etc if u want it now have it if u wanna wait then wait its a very personal q only you can anwser for yourself

Mrs jagne no need to be a smart hole u don't like the question then don't answer it... Simple ... I was simply asking other people's opinions on the matter ...

I found out I was pg with #2 when my first was only 9 months old. Not planned, she was a surprise. They are 18 months apart TO THE DAY. It's hard at first, but they get along great most of the time now. ( 6 and almost 5). There are times where they fight like crazy, but other times they are best friends. I think they will enjoy it when they're older! If you feel like you can do it... I say go for it!

I am one of those that I very emotionally attached...if that's the right word! I am TTc our 2nd and wanted to wait until she was atleast 2 to do so, so we can have more "one on one" time with her. I felt it would be hard to try and please both at very young ages at the same time, and didn't want to miss those special moments with our first because we might be tending to the "new baby"...I say think about it and don't let your baby be a baby first and you enjoy those times cuz when you have another...you might wish you waited a little longer ;)

Sorry " and LET your baby be a baby first" ;)

if you'd like another baby then definitely go for it! Having children who aren't that far apart in age makes them really close friends when they are older / being brought up together. I'm currently 20 weeks with my first child and for me personally, I don't like this feeling of being pregnant, it has been a real rough time for me, constant sickness and being weak isn't my idea of fun lol I don't think I'll be having another for a while after.