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Day 43, No period, two BFN's. Can't take it anymore.

Anyone else experiencing cycles like this? I am so distraught. How can I not be stressed when this is happening? I've had awfully sore breasts but even that's going away now. Am I perimenopausal? Does anyone have a similar experience? I am so upset!

9 Answers • 10 years ago


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I had a long cycle like that and on cd 41 I tested and got a positive hpt. Maybe you ovulated way later and a positive will show in a few days. Do you bbt?

10 years ago


I had a long cycle like that and on cd 41 I tested and got a positive hpt. Maybe you ovulated way later and a positive will show in a few days. Do you bbt?

10 years ago


Thank you for responding! I do do BBT. My temps haven't really lowered until today. But my temps have been so erratic and I had 5 patches of EWCM this cycle. So i'm not sure if I even ovulated. Last cycle I was 41 days and got AF.
I was thinking i could still be pregnant, but why would my boobs be hurting less each day?

10 years ago • Post starter


Are your cycles normally so long? You may want to see your doctor about the lengths of your cycles.


*23, Christian, PCOS Variant, TTC My 1st* User Image

10 years ago


no. I had a missed miscarriage and was induced to deliver my twins on the 16th week of pregnancy back in January. But since then I went back to my 30-31 day regular cycle. It's only been these past two cycles that have been so long. I'm really concerned. I have an appointment with a fertility clinic on August 26th. But I can't handle the stress this is causing me. I'm so worried something serious is wrong.

10 years ago • Post starter


Your stress might be causing your cycles to be long. Try to relax and take your mind off things if you can. This website definitely doesn't help with that. You're still getting AF even if your cycles are a bit longer, most likely everything is fine.


*23, Christian, PCOS Variant, TTC My 1st* User Image

10 years ago


I know how you feel. I am on cd42 and not pregnant (i didnt ovulate again this cycle). I have had a hsg this morning and my dr thinks my cycle has gone this long (usually 33 days iish) due to me being worried/stressed etc over this test and has delayed af. Hopefully now it is over, af will show up. Maybe you are just stressed out due to everything that is going on right now, what with the inducing (sorry to hear that) and the appointment is looming to see fertility specialist. I hope that once your stress levels are lowered, af will show. Good luck

10 years ago


I am on cycle day 44 , 12 days late for AF had hpt test done at the drs. yesterday. I am NEVER late my cycles are usually around 31 day cycle. Did blood test yesterday, waiting to hear back.
I know is frustrating
Wish you luck lots of baby dust your way :)

10 years ago


Hi ladies, thanks for your responses and your words of advice. AF showed up yesterday on cycle day 45. 4 days later than last cycle and 15 days later than my normal cycle. So something is up. I guess I will find out at the dr's. Good luck to you all. Sorry you are going through this as well.

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