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In a sad state of mind :(

I hate to admit this, but i am getting so sick of seeing pregnant women lately and of people announcing they are pregnant... i hate feeling this way!! Im so jealous of every pregnant bump i see and its starting to really take its toll on me. My bf and i have been trying so hard to fall pregnant, i have pcos and a left hydrosalphinx so its not plain sailing to say the least, my periods were 38 days apart, only for the last period to show up on cd30!! I mean wth!! I was clinging to the hope it was IB as it wasnt enough to warrant a period, but tested this morn and BFN :S Dont get me wrong it hasnt taken over our sexlife and we dont just have sex to fall pregnant. What im sick of seeing is young girls aged 15-16 walking around with huge bumps smoking and acting asthough they arent pregnant. 1 girl in my docs office even admitted 2 her friend she only got pregnant so she could move into her own house grrrr! Pleae tell me im not alone in feeling this way, it is normal isnt it??
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9 Answers • 10 years ago


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After I got married,(this goes back 20 years) my husband and I tried to get pregnant. It took four months and I finally did. Those four months seemed like four years and everywhere I looked and friends i knew were pregnant. I had the feeling of "It's not fair!" Don't give up hope! It takes time. I'm 40 and my chances each month are 5%. If you're in your 20's a healthy couple has a 25% chance of conceiving that month. It's all timing, and sometimes the egg does get fertilized but doesn't "stick" and you'd never know it. Hang it in there. Relax. Too much stress plays a factor as well. After the third month for me I kinda gave up and then BOOM, the next month I was preggos. Good luck and relax:)

10 years ago


I feel the exact same as you! I hate seeing woman shouting at children they already have, they don't know how lucky they are. you will get your BFP and when it comes, you'll appreciate it a whole lot more xx


10 years ago


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lol, i have 3 kids and believe me, you'll be doing some shouting yourself when the time comes!

10 years ago


Feeling the exact same today! from the time i woke up until now has been nothing but dissapointing! It is definently hard to be optimistic but we have to tell ourselves that our time will come! I believe everything happens for a reason.
goodluck hun

10 years ago


I feel the same way. AF just started today after the 5th failed cycle. Seems like I can't go anywhere without seeing 5-6 pregnant women walking around. Hard to not feel a little sad and resentful. Just keep trying to tell myself that it'll happen when the time is right. Hang in there.

10 years ago


Feeling the same here too. Just seen an old school fried who has just had her 12 week scan and is due when I would have been due if I hadn't mc'd. I'm trying to keep optimistic and not stress about it but finding it difficult. X

10 years ago


My AF arrived today, one day late - which is really unusual. I'd totally got my hopes up and convinced myself that this was it, I've been a slave to symptom spotting and taken 6 hpt over the last week just waiting for that line to show. My DH and I have been trying for 2 and a half years and are just starting fertility treatment, and somehow I just thought that it had happened. But no.

All of my friends have young children or are pregnant, and the number of 'Oh I thought we'd have to try for ages but then it just happened the first month' stories I've heard!

Don't get me wrong, I'm so happy for all of them and I know that their having a baby doesn't mean that I won't. But it does make me feel jealous and sad.

I'm sorry you guys are feeling the same, but kind of glad that it's not just me.

x

10 years ago


Glad im not alone in this! Its so bloody hard isnt it. Yes i know il probably be doing some shouting when my time comes lol i never said i wouldnt! But it gets worse every month for me, i thought my cycles had finally got into a 38 day rythm but then at 6dpo i had what id say was af, as if it was IB id have a pos test by now surely! So envious of pregnant women lol but happy for friends and family that are pregnantor have children, dnt get me wrong! lol Sooo tough to keep plodding on, ive got to the stage where i think its never going to happen, but then i think i am every bloomin month haha we dont half torture ourselves ay ladies!! Lets just hope this is a phase lol and i will overcome it as i dont want to be the bitter lady that hates bumps lol :) Good luck to u all aswell and i hope you all manage to get ur HUGE BFP'S so soon x

10 years ago • Post starter


I have been feeling the same way lately! I have been ttc since last year in October, almost one year! I'm in my twenties (23), no health problems and I'm getting very impatient. I don't want to use fertility drugs yet so this cycle I started vitex hoping it will help! I'm sorry to hear you have not conceived yet but good luck and baby dust to you!.

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