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Right now :o)

I wish I could right now! Lol but unfortunately I am at work :-( ha tonight def an I doubt I can get another day out out of him, poor guy lol does TTC make it rough on anyone elses relationships? IM thinking I can't go through another month like this.

Like those new AT&T commercials " more is better". If he is starting to get worn out try to do a little something extra like go an get a new lingerie outfit, or get some of that couples lube from KY called yours and mine from the drug store. Or if your really adventurous stop buy a sex toy shop and see what kind of options they have there.
If you start introducing new things in the relationship he might forget about being pressured to perform and just have fun having sex. You wanna try to unlock the primative side of him. He is a man they all have caveman attributes. I know mine does. The more adventurous I am the more he likes it. Good luck.

Just have to say do NOT go out and get lube like one person said - all lube except preseed is supposed to be hostile to sperm!! GL!

I have been using the pressed an soft cups during every bd session lol thank you! :-)

I have to trick my husband- I don't tell him iam oing!!! It puts too much pressure on him to perform. So i have learned to just send him texts through out the day...."man I'm horny today"...." jeze I wish you weren't at work so I could jump your bones"....it gets him all riled up and that way he's ready later on ;)

LOL this may be a little TMI but I had to turn on a porno! lol but it helped and I can understand his frustration :)

Heck yeah, bust out the porn!! :) I've been with my husband for 20 years and sometimes even i need porn :) LOL....and I know you know- but yes NEVER use spit or lubes other than preseed ;)

Well I have done everything possible this cycle from the opks, softcups and pre seed and bd from 5/14 to today 5/21. No to mention orgasm each time! Ha Fingers crossed :) Ohh and thanks for the advice!