Answered by a member - May. 16, 2012 2:17am
Thank you so much ladies for your comments and support it truely has made the world of difference for me and im feeling a bit more positive im in my two week wait and i find as my hormone levels increase so do my emotions but your kind words have brightend my day
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Answered by a member - May. 15, 2012 10:05am
I hear ya. I feel like the general feel of this site has changed. Maybe it's because I've become less optimistic too. I joined almost a year ago and at first received so much support and made friends. But as time went on they all got their bfps and moved on. Now my questions barely get answered. I do appreciate the ladies who got their bfps and still stick around for support. Like dmartin and Christine, I see you answer lots of questions and you're always so positive and so supportive. But then there are definitely some who stick around for the wrong reasons and can just be plain rude. But I hear ya, it's not what it used to be.
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Answered by Christie143 - May. 15, 2012 9:52am
I got my bfp about a month ago and I'm still here lending my help and support as much as I can to any wonderful lady that needs it :-) but I also can understand why certain ones do leave, sometimes we just feel like we don't belong here or that the ladies still ttc would be upset that we were still on this site. Idk, I'm not going anywhere, I love this site and I love helping others, I just don't flaunt my bfp so I don't offend anyone. Whatever you decide to do I hope you all the luck in the world and lots of baby dust! Although, I hope you don't leave, but if it's bringing you down that much then maybe just don't log on for a few months. Good luck honey and baby dust *hugs*
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Answered by michelle2879 - May. 15, 2012 7:53am
I've been trying tttc for almost a year now and I don't see a bfp in the forseeable future :( (I have a few issues) Any way I have some friends that got bfp and still hang around to help and will answer questions! Not all of them leave :) opks are hard to post on here I must admit. I've posted some that I could've sworn were postive but even doubted myself when I saw them posted. The camera didn't pick up the color difference so when dealing with opks sometimes the only way to know is in real life. I feel ya though I don't think I've ever gotten a truly opk!!! I hope you stay as well as you see there are plenty on here in the same boat as you :)
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Answered by dmartin65 - May. 15, 2012 7:38am
I think some of the ladies feel they are leaving this site out of respect for the women who are still TTC. Like maybe there will be a little bit of resentment because they got their BFP and other ladies are still struggling. Don't give up. These ladies are right. There are still a ton of nice ladies on here that are in the same situation as you are and would love to help. But if it is stressing you out then you have to do what is best for you. Good luck to you.
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Answered by faith45 - May. 15, 2012 4:47am
correction.. i actually kinda stalked this site for information for about a year befor i finally joined.. im so glad i did.. i just thought one day.. this is silly .. im always on here checking and looking at different things.. i might as well join... lol..
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Answered by faith45 - May. 15, 2012 4:45am
i completely understand.. ive been a member for a while too. and i noticed the same thing.. but you know its just like anywhere else.. you have to take the good with the bad hun.. and i beleive over all thier are alot of really nice caring ladies on this site that are more than happy to take the time to listen or give some kind encouraging words...dont give up hope... good luck to you...
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Answered by Liz3377 - May. 15, 2012 1:13am
I've been TTC for over a year also! I wouldn't disappear on you! I don't get why people do that either... It makes me mad too.. it's like they think.. oh well, I don't care about you now, I got my BFP..hmph!
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Answered by a member - May. 15, 2012 12:34am
I just feel so dang down atm and im thinking maybe its not helping coming on here i joined a year ago i still havent got a bfp i chated to a few ladies on here who were ttc but as soon ad they got their bfp they disappeared and it gets me down when i post my opks that are clearly positive just looking for reassurance and half the people still vote negative i dont know but its just been getting me down more then giving me hope lately
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Answered by Destiny - May. 15, 2012 12:13am
That is what I was thinking... everything ok???
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